Being a Jack of All Trades: Breadth vs Depth

One of the most wonderful things about the times we live in is that the variety of things we have available to us is as diverse as it has ever been in the history of our species. It is also, arguably, one of the worst things. I know that just for me personally, having so many options leaves me with analysis paralysis, so I end up doing nothing a lot of the time. But at the same time, I can’t help but want to do so many different things because my mind feeds off the diversity and the idea that I can do anything I devote my time to. Yet, in recent months, I have found that this is not always the best course of action. This post is going to be about the difference I’ve found between going broad and diving deep.

Breadth vs Depth

In essence, the distinction between breadth and depth is that breadth is shallow and random while depth is narrow and focused. For example, if you are having dinner, you can eat your food in two different ways. The first, breadth, is to take a bite or two of your steak, then take a bite of your mashed potatoes, then a bite of salad, or you could mix two or more items together in one bite, and you continually go back and forth between each food item. This has the advantage of knowing how the whole meal works together because the flavors get mixed up. The second, depth, is to take one food item and just keep eating it until it is gone, then move onto the next one, so you might start with a food you don’t like as much to get it out of the way, then onto the next least favorite food, and finally finish with your favorite item. This has the advantage of really being able to savor and fully experience each piece of food since your taste buds aren’t getting confused by the other foods.

This applies to all areas of life, though when it comes to things we want to do, the dinner plate is endless. I will use myself as an example here. When I am at home, I have a lot of things that I like to do. I can read a book, play a video game, watch a movie or TV show, surf the Internet, practice playing music, spend some time writing (like I’m doing right now), or just have a nice chat with my fiancee. And those are just the categories. When you take the choices in each category into play, my options increase exponentially. Not to mention these all need to fight against the things that I have to do, like apartment upkeep, cooking, and exercising. This can often be confusing and leave me not knowing what to do, but, at the end of the day, I love having so many options.

Where this distinction between breadth and depth becomes important is when it comes to skills. I think most people fall more on the breadth side of the spectrum when it comes to skills. I know I certainly do. People who take a breadth approach to skills end up being a jack-of-all-trades. They have some skill in multiple areas, but they will never be great at any of them. In order to be an expert in something, you really have to take a depth approach. This is simply because you have to devote time to something in order to become great at it. It goes back to the 10,000 hour rule, popularized by Malcolm Gladwell in his book Outliers. Most experts become experts because they focus on one skill and do it for years. There are few people who have that kind of focus, which is why true experts are so rare and valued.

Depth is Important; Breadth is Fun

The reason I bring this up is because I have recently experienced, for the first time really, the drawbacks to having a broad knowledge base instead of a deep one. Over the course of my career, I have prided myself on being an incredibly diverse worker. In all of my jobs, I have had to adapt to things quickly, constantly having to learn new frameworks and languages to get the job done, and I have been recognized and praised for that ability. But I have come to the realization that if I actually want to advance beyond where I’m at, I need depth too. Most companies are not inclined to advance people who are not experts in their domain, though it does depend on the company and its needs. Smaller companies are more inclined to want people with a broad skill set since they can’t hire as many people to do all the things they need done. While I personally think that versatility is a better trait to have than being an expert in only one or two fields, my industry doesn’t think so. Thus, I will have to make a compromise somewhere. And in truth, it’s not a bad thing to try to be an expert in a field, just as long as I don’t get myself pigeon-holed into that field. As I said before, I thrive on variety.

So, as a piece of advice, even to myself, it is vital to have deep knowledge where you intend to work. Not doing so runs the risk of being blockaded by other people. But when it comes to hobbies and doing what you want, I feel like having breadth is more fun. I understand that there are people out there who find it easier to go deep in a hobby, like becoming a hardcore marathon runner, or a crafts artist on Etsy, or a professional video game player. And they get lots of enjoyment out of those pursuits. But for me, the world just has so much to offer, and I love learning new things all the time, so dabbling a bit in everything tends to make me more happy than focusing in just one area. Sure, I may never be more than above average in any of those hobbies, but I don’t have to be. They are hobbies. If I want to be an expert, I should do it in my work, since that is where it really counts.

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Bit of a short one this time, but it’s not a very broad topic. It was just something that I discovered late last year and felt that I needed to speak on it. I have also been working on putting a little bit of writing in each day, so this was a nice break from the other stuff I’ve been working on. I wouldn’t hold my breath on those projects coming out any time soon, but I am aiming to have some actual projects completed this year. My best friend has been really pushing me lately to actually get some progress on my various ideas, so I’m getting there. See you again!

Year in Review: 2014

Looking back at last year’s review, it has been a really long and jam-packed year for me. This will be mostly the same format, but instead of doing just the great stuff, I’m going to do a general summary of how the year went and felt. I also want to go over how I did on last year’s goals before I go into this year’s. Let’s just get right to it.

Summary

If I had to describe this year in one phrase, it would be that this year is just setup for next year. This is not to put down any of the great things that happened or that I accomplished, but most of it is really just contributing to even greater things that are going to happen next year. Last year I ran several races from 5-10K in length, but those are really just getting me ready for the half-marathon coming up this year in June. I got engaged on a fantastic trip to Europe, but that is just the first step towards getting married in 2015. I read a ton of books and practiced many things, learning a bunch, all in the hopes of doing something spectacular in the coming year.

I feel this is all good though. I am a little surprised that I don’t have much to show for this year, but I know in my gut that I’m on the right track, much more so than last year. There were a lot of shifts in my life in 2013, so I spent a good chunk of 2014 getting settled and building up a new foundation for where I want my life to go in the next few years. I understand that marriage is coming this year, and children are not going to be far behind. I would like to be prepared for those shifts so that I don’t have to try to recover as much as I did this last year.

I am definitely happy with all the experimenting I did. Some things have turned out to be huge successes, like using JIRA for tracking my personal projects and signing up for a class-based fitness program instead of a typical gym. Some things didn’t work out so well, but they provided valuable information, and a few of them I’ve been able to modify or come at from a different approach to be more effective. I plan on doing a lot of things in the coming year, so these methods will definitely help me get them done.

Favorite Games

The Last of Us - I only finished four games this whole year, which is probably a record low for me, but I’m definitely glad that this was among them. It’s really the only game I played this year that I enjoyed, and it is easily in my top 5 games of all time. I already loved all of the Uncharted games, and this game is just as good in the gameplay department, but with a story and characters that truly got to my heart. A video game has never made me cry, but this one damn near did. It is truly a unique experience, one that I will be glad to have again and again.

Favorite Movies/Shows

The Lost Room - This is a sci-fi mini-series that only takes a few hours to get through, so there really is no reason for others to see this because it is fantastic. The story isn’t totally original, but the main concept and the way it is executed is amazing. I went into it on blind faith and I’m glad that I didn’t know anything about it as that just made it that much more magical. It’s an incredibly clever show and I highly recommend it.

Kill la Kill - One of the things I wanted to do this year was get back into anime a bit, and this was a good one to bring me back into the fold. I’m not going to say that it’s a great show, it very likely won’t be a classic. But it was lots of fun to watch and I would gladly do so again.

The Grand Budapest Hotel - I really feel like I should include at least one movie in this list, and this was the best movie I saw this year, so that’s why it’s here. Maybe in another year I would have something more up my alley, but I was pleasantly surprised with how much I enjoyed this movie. It is good enough that I am much more inclined to try other Wes Anderson films (this was my first one).

Legend of Korra Season 2 - Yeah, I know the entire show is over now, but I tend to be late to the party with most things. I will also admit to the fact that I didn’t actually like this season as much as the first one, but it’s still leaps and bounds above most other shows. I can’t wait to watch the rest.

Favorite Books

Steve Jobs/Total Recall - I read almost 50 books this year, so I’m going to group a few of them. I’m not much of a history buff, but listening to these biographies about Steve Jobs and Arnold Schwarzenegger, respectively, was a lot more enjoyable than I thought they would be. What amazing lives those two had (and are still having). I respect them both more in some ways because of these books.

Daemon/Freedom - I had heard on good authority that Daniel Suarez was a good writer, but in reading them I found that I absolutely love his style. His books are fun, fast, and smart. After reading his books, most other authors seem way too slow now. I also read Influx, but I feel like it wasn’t quite a good as these two were.

The Better Angels of Our Nature - This is another book that I wouldn’t have expected to like, but it was utterly fascinating. Not only was it interesting to get the scope of how violence has changed over our history, but it left me in high spirits knowing that we as a species are going in the right direction, regardless of what the news media or others try to tell us. As long as information continues to spread, the world gets less violent. It is a great message to read about and have proven by statistics.

The Satanic Verses - This was another pleasant surprise to me. I had no idea what the book would be about, and that made it all the more enjoyable. I’m not going to say that I loved everything about it, but it was well written, had quirky characters and language, and showed incredible imagination. Definitely one I would recommend to others.

Ready to Run/Bulletproof Diet/Eat That Frog and others - As I said above, I was doing a lot of experimenting this year, and that involved reading a lot of self-help books. Some of them didn’t provide much, but the three I mention here stood out more than the others. Not so much because the information was new or life changing, but because they made me step back and actually analyze myself. Like with Ready to Run, I never really thought about how I stand, but after reading that I realized that even though I stand up straight, the way my legs were aligned was causing issues. Once I started being conscious of it, I can feel the difference in my back and legs when I stand properly. The same goes with the Bulletproof Diet. It is much more about being aware of what I’m eating and how it’s effecting me, rather than being a traditional diet book. That being said, the Bulletproof Coffee in that book as well as the tips on sleeping have created a noticeable difference, so I do plan to incorporate more of that into my life.

Goals

First, let’s go over what I put down last year:

  • Keep on the healthy path - SUCCESS - I definitely stuck with it. My eating habits are slow to change, but adding regular exercise and cutting back on drinking have been huge factors in my weight loss and feeling better in the latter part of the year. Fully intend to keep this going.
  • Prioritize better - SUCCESS - This is mostly thanks to using JIRA. I have definitely had better focus on what’s important since using it.
  • Be frugal - NO CHANGE - I don’t really spend any more or less than I did a year ago, though I have some good savings built up now. That’s mostly just because I’ve had a whole year of higher wages over 2013. And my going out habits also haven’t really changed. Might work on that some more.
  • Cultivate positivity - SUCCESS - I like to think I did pretty well at this, though I’m sure there is still room to grow. Mostly I just notice that I don’t get in bad moods as much as I did in previous years.
  • Write more - SUCCESS - One of the experiments for this year was to try writing a blog post every week. I was doing pretty well at it, but eventually it got to the point of being a hassle and I reprioritized. It’s hard to say if I will be writing a lot in the coming year, but I would like to think so.
  • Compartmentalize work - NO CHANGE - I wouldn’t say that I’ve gotten any better at this since I still waste a lot of time at work (though much lower than the average person) just browsing when I should be working. I also still have trouble relaxing at night when work is being tough. So I still need to work on this.
  • Continue focusing efforts - SUCCESS - Again thanks to JIRA, it is much easier to keep myself focused on a smaller number of things than it was before. It didn’t necessarily translate into getting more things done, but the stress is lower.

So I am going to continue working on the above and add a couple more for this year based on what has changed since last year:

  • Spend time working on personal projects every day - Now that I have gotten better at prioritizing and focusing my efforts, this year I’m going to work on applying these skills to producing more. Last year I did well with the blog posts, but this year I want to have something more significant to show for it. Right now I’m in the beginning stages of making a cover song entirely by myself and making a game. I might also be able to knock out some short stories while taking breaks from those projects. I’ve had these ambitions plenty of times before, but I really do think I can get somewhere this year with my current habits.
  • Get better at cooking - I’ve had this as a goal in previous years, and I think it’s time to bring it up again. Now that I have more knowledge of good foods, it is time to put it to good use.

Whew, that’s a ton of stuff to read over! I’m so long winded sometimes. But anyway, looking forward to what is definitely going to be the best year yet!

Organization and Productivity: Fine Tuning

As promised, this post will mostly be an update to this previous post. What has been going well and what hasn’t worked out. Plus anything else I’ve been doing recently that has been helping me get more stuff done. Let’s get right to it.

Chores

I was already a while into this one when I wrote the first post, so I knew it was going to work out in the long run. And for the last few months, it really has made a difference in how I approach the chores that I don’t like. Dishes in particular are my least favorite chore (yes, even below cleaning the cat box), but knowing that it’s a morning chore takes a lot of pressure off every night. The only issue with the morning block is that if the dishes take longer than normal, or if I get a late start to the morning, it leaves no time for practicing guitar before work, which I always look forward to.

For sure, when it comes to things that you have to do, batching tasks and giving them a set time each day makes it a lot easier to keep on top of them.

Exercise

This is another area that has been going very well. I was still new to Orange Theory at the time I wrote the last post and only going two times a week. Now, both my fiancée are going at least three times a week, and it feels great. With as much as I need to get done, it’s a much stronger motivator to exercise when there is a set time that I must show up for (or risk losing money). I held off on going up from two times a week because I thought that I would go running on the weekends, but that never happened, as I predicted it would. I intend to keep going with my races (up to 10Ks now!) once per month, but the only training I’m going to do for those is with OT.

My advice is the same as before. If you have trouble committing to exercise, sign up for classes. It is a vastly superior option to going solo at the gym.

Using JIRA

I’m so glad I decided to go this route for keeping track of the personal tasks I want to get accomplished, though it has been a struggle finding that sweet spot of how much I should plan to do during the month. After several months, it would appear that on average I can complete 3-3.5 days worth of personal stuff, so around 80-90 hours, or 3 hours per day. That seems logical since an hour of that is listening to audiobooks to and from work, and the other two hours are things like studying French/German (started German since getting back from the trip, and it is significantly easier than French, partly because it’s the language I took in high school) and reading. The time it takes to write and proofread these posts are also tracked in JIRA, plus anything else that takes a worthwhile chunk of time to complete (at least 30 minutes). Normal day to day tasks are not tracked in JIRA, but I do track them either on my weekly list or as reminders if they are time sensitive or need to happen during work hours.

The biggest problem I still have is that I keep putting more tasks in the sprints than I can actually get through. For a while I didn’t know what to do with tasks that were going to take a few months to complete since they don’t fit the sprint model, so I would just put them in there anyway. This makes all of the graphs look awful though. They seem to indicate that I’m not getting as much done as I am, so I just settled on keeping track of these tasks by always having them at the top of the backlog list until they are small enough to be finished off in a month’s time.

I will stop before I put anyone to sleep with details, but it has also proven to be a great tool for keeping me on track with what I want to get done.

Incentive System

Unlike everything else, this ended up being a complete flop. As I suspected quickly after starting, unless you can come up with rewards that work for everyone involved, there are no incentives, so the whole thing just falls apart. I do still think the idea is a good one, it just needs to be rethought for different groups. I can see what I came up with working well if the group is made up of people who are doing the same things and are just competing to see who does the most over a period of time. But since my goals were vastly different from my fiancée’s, there was no real way to make them equal to each other. It was too easy for me to get way ahead of her because of the tasks involved, so she never had a chance to catch up.

In the end, the system is useless if there aren’t reasonable rewards to be had. Neither of us could come up with something since we already do as much for each other as possible without needing an excuse to do so. If I were to do it again, I’d probably do something with coworkers, and the reward would simply be a money pot or something else that everyone pitches into. Really no different from a gambling pool, or some other competition for a prize, but includes a tracking system that everyone can see. And realistically, the other methods I use for tracking are enough to keep me going towards my goals.

New Stuff

Not a whole lot of new things, but there are couple worth mentioning. Most of these have come either from Eat That Frog! by Brian Tracy (highly repetitive, but has enough good content to be worth a read) or The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey, the book that every other self-help book tries to emulate. Seriously, I had no idea until I actually read it just how much every other book in its genre is just a rehash of what he wrote 25 years ago. It is absolutely worth reading for that reason alone.

One of the biggest takeaways I got from both books is that I didn’t have a really clear vision of what and where I wanted to be in a year, five years, or ten years. They both recommend writing those visions out as concrete goals, and then try to list everything I can think of that will get me one step closer toward those goals. I’ve done that before, a lot of my JIRA tasks are doing just that. But what I didn’t do that they brought to light was that I wasn’t doing a good enough job of prioritizing the goals. I kept thinking about what I felt should get done first, when I should’ve been thinking about which ones will have the most positive impact on me, and focus on those first. A very small difference, but caused a big change in my thinking.

Another good tip that I got is to always plan out my days the day before. I’d heard of doing this in the past, but I didn’t put much stock in it until I saw the common thread in these books and decided that it would be worth a shot. So I started out by just doing it at work, and it helped a bit, though it doesn’t work as well when I’m lacking in things to do, or I get blocked by something/someone else, or there I get a higher priority request that needs to be done that day. It has proven to be a lot more useful at home where I have no shortage of things to do.

The last thing I’ve been trying to get better at is focusing on one big task at a time. I’ve struggled to do this for a long time, so it’s not a new concept to me, but I figured I’d mention it since it’s talked about ad nauseum in those books. As a way to keep myself on a single goal at a time, I have changed my routine such that outside of reading and exercising, all of my free time will be focused on one thing until it is done. So instead of trying to set aside some time for languages, some time for writing, some time for guitar, etc. on a daily basis, I’m going to go all out on just one thing. I think to start with, I’m going to focus on getting through all the lessons on Duolingo for French and German. Once I’ve gotten through those, I can start a routine of just practicing them on a regular basis to build up the mental muscle, probably for 15-30 minutes each morning. This is not to say that I won’t spend some time doing other things that are relaxing, but I know that I have to push something off. Knowing ahead of time what I’m pushing off will keep me from getting frustrated when I keep falling behind on things.

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That being said, thanks to those tips, I’ve come to the conclusion that trying to write these posts on a weekly basis is not a high enough priority for me to keep it going. Compared to all of my other goals, posting on a website that no one really reads is generally a waste of my time when I could be using my writing time on something more useful, like stories. So, it was a fun challenge to keep this going for a few months, but I don’t feel like there are enough (or any) benefits to doing this on a regular basis. I might take some time to write a post here or there if something comes to me, but for now, the site will go back to its dormant state until I have something that I feel is worthwhile putting up here. Hopefully with some of these changes, that will come sooner rather than later.

Have a good one!

Glass Houses: The End of Privacy

I know, I know. When most people think about glass houses, it’s usually in reference to the idiom where you shouldn’t throw stones. But it’s also an apt way of describing how privacy is getting harder and harder to enforce in the modern world. Technology continues to increase, as does the amount of data there is about people being passed around. Most of this information is not secured in any way, making it easy for data aggregators to get their hands on it, and there are plenty of times when even secure data is compromised. It’s a problem that is only going to get worse.

I had actually planned on doing this post before the recent news about the nude photos of several celebrities getting out into the wild, but that makes it even more appropriate. I fully agree that what happened is awful and they didn’t deserve to have that happen. No one does in that situation. However, I have to acknowledge that these things are inevitable, so what we as a society really need to do is accept that fact and learn from these events.

Privacy is Over

Make no doubts about it, privacy as we know it is ending. It will be a slow death, but it will come all the same. At least, it will for the people who don’t bother to do anything about it. This is the overwhelming majority of people on this planet. When it comes to privacy, there is a broad spectrum of people. At the one end you have the people who do not care at all and just let out any information that is asked of them. At the other end you have the people who are paranoid and spend a lot of effort protecting every single thing they do. Like all normal distributions, most people are somewhere in the middle.

As we have seen with the rise of the Internet and social media, people are not terribly secretive creatures. This has always been true, but now with these technologies, those secrets are easier for outsiders to access, and those secrets never go away. Once something is posted publicly, it is almost impossible to erase, especially if there are people who are interested in it. And the harder you try to erase it, the harder it becomes to do so (see the Streisand Effect).

The real trouble comes when people have an expectation of privacy, but their information gets out. Sometimes it just leads to an annoyance, like getting phone calls from telemarketers. Other times, it can be severely damaging, like getting your whole identity stolen. In lots of these cases, the root problem is that they had the expectation when there was nothing to back them up. When it comes to social networks in particular, assuming there is any privacy is a falsehood. As soon as one person can see it, any one can see it if there is malicious intent.

That is where the true danger lies. Not in technology, but in the people who are using it. More and more often, people are losing data through social engineering. There are certainly still hackers who just go after data, but preying on the mistakes that people make is becoming increasingly popular. And even if you are careful, that doesn’t mean someone else who has data about you is going to be the same.

Protecting Yourself and Letting Go

So what can people do about these things? No matter how careful one person is, they can be compromised by someone else. What can they possibly do in that kind of situation? Honestly, there are really only a few things you can do.

First and foremost, assume that everything you do can be compromised, especially if technology is involved at all. Anything you say to someone in confidence can still be leaked out. Any picture you take with your phone has the potential of getting stolen, even if you never post it anywhere. Think before you post: Will I be okay with this in a month? A year? Several years down the road? Don’t treat anything as sacred.

Second, focus on protecting the things that really matter. For the vast majority of people, this means your financials. Eventually technology will lead to better protections on our identities so that it will be almost impossible for them to be faked, but until that time comes, we need to be vigilant. Use credit cards whenever possible instead of debit (they generally have better protections). Avoid leaving paper with sensitive info on it around. Get a locking mailbox if you expect to get mail with sensitive info. Be careful about who you share information with (don’t go with unknown companies). Most other things are fixable, but having your financial information stolen is hard to recover from, so focus there first.

And lastly, know where it is okay to let it go. In many areas, we like to treat things as secrets when there is no real need to. My phone number, my address, things that are going on in my life, none of these things are truly secret, so it seems silly for me to assume that they are. But while that is true for me, it will not be for other people. For others, having their home address out in the wild can be potentially dangerous to them, especially when combined with other information. It’s just a matter of knowing what is okay and what isn’t. But in general, most information about you isn’t going to get you into trouble. If it doesn’t compromise your safety, it’s probably not worthwhile trying to keep it secret.

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This post was mostly to fill a gap while I finish up the last of a series of books I’ve been reading about self-improvement, so it’s definitely not one of my better efforts. Next week’s should be better though. I will be revisiting an old post and seeing how I am doing with my productivity goals. I will also be discussing the books I’ve been reading, either in the next post or another one soon. See you then!

Europe Trip 2014

As I mentioned a few weeks ago, my girlfriend and I just had a wonderful vacation (or holiday as they would say) in Europe. Specifically we stopped in Ireland, Scotland, England, and popped over to France for a couple nights. Despite the fact that we were moving around a lot, it was overall a very relaxing trip and it felt like it took a whole month rather than just two weeks.

I don’t want to do a full play by play of everything that happened, since that would be tedious for everyone. I’m just going to focus on the things that I found awesome in each city we visited, and general impressions about each place we went. Let’s hit it!

Dublin

I’d been to Ireland before on a previous trip in 2006, but we didn’t do very much in Dublin that time around, so I wanted to make sure we got the full experience this time. It wasn’t the best of times for me since I managed to get a nasty bug either at PAX or on the plane ride over, so I was having a lot of trouble sleeping. Despite that, we had an great time there.

We visited most of the obvious spots. Trinity College for the Book of Kells and Old Library (still stunning), Dublin Castle, Guinness Storehouse, and the Old Jameson Distillery to name the best ones. The one thing that really stood out to me about the Guinness Storehouse was simply how big it was. They put a ridiculous amount of money into making a very nice experience for visitors, way more than any other brewery I’ve been to. I ended up having a lot of Guinness in Dublin despite my illness because it is so much better than in the states. Touring the Jameson distillery was also great. One other thing I noticed between the two is that Jameson is obviously going for the higher end consumers while Guinness has stuff for everyone. I guess Jameson figures that their clientele are more sophisticated, which is probably true overall.

The thing that surprised me most about Dublin though was that the food was a lot better than I expected it to be. It was certainly better overall than what we had in Scotland and England, and was cheaper to boot. And it wasn’t just the native food, they had excellent Italian and Mexican food as well.

Scotland

In Scotland we spent a full day in Glasgow, a day travelling up to Loch Ness and Inverness, and a full day in Edinburgh. The highlight for me in Glasgow was absolutely the Necropolis. In fact, it is in my top three things for the entire trip. That graveyard is unlike anything I’ve ever seen, the sheer size of the place and most of the tombs and tombstones are elaborate and unique. It really is breathtaking. The cathedral nearby is also pretty cool, but it pales in comparison.

The trip up to Loch Ness and down to Edinburgh was kind of funny because it felt almost exactly like driving in Washington. The road up to Loch Ness was like driving on Highway 2 through the mountains, while going to Edinburgh was like using I-90. There was only one section where this wasn’t true, and that was during the stretch when we first got into the highlands, and I can definitely say that that was unlike anywhere else I’ve been. My girlfriend said that it felt like another planet, and I fully agree. Loch Ness itself wasn’t anything particularly interesting, but stopping by Urquhart Castle on the way was cool. Inverness on the other hand was pretty lame.

Luckily Edinburgh was there to make things cool again. If we were to go back to Scotland, I think it would be to just spend more time in Edinburgh. There is so much to do there that we didn’t have time to do having only one day. The zoo they have there is pretty good, especially their famous penguins (including the parade, where penguins will walk around outside their cage, and yes, it is just as adorable as the videos you will find online). Edinburgh Castle in the middle of the city is also very impressive. It’s the only castle in the UK I’ve been to that feels like an actual fortress (the only one that comes close is the Tower of London).

London

I distinctly remember back in 2006, when I visited London for the first time, I decided that if I didn’t live in Seattle, London would be my second choice. This trip pretty much confirmed that. It is still my favorite city to visit. I love the culture, I love the history, I love the transportation options, and I like that the location is much closer to other places I would love to spend more time in.

This trip had a couple repeats and a couple new things. Westminster Abbey is still my favorite church, and it ranked in my top three things for the trip, which is impressive since I already knew how awesome it was. It just blew me away again. The Tower of London was also a fun revisit. As far as new things go, Buckingham Palace is one of the most incredible buildings I’ve ever seen. I expected it to be lavish, but it managed to completely blow away my expectations with its splendor. It puts every other castle I’ve seen to shame. The other new thing was a quick trip to the British Museum, and like Buckingham, I was floored with how awesome the building is. I loved how every room felt like it was designed specifically for the exhibit that it contained (which may be the case, I didn’t really look into it). I was also surprised at how many things weren’t being protected by glass, they just trust people to leave them alone, even things that are millennia old.

The other thing we did that was worth noting was a visit to one of Gordon Ramsay’s restaurants. I’ve had fancy meals before but nothing quite like this one. It shows off how meals like that really are a different experience from simply eating to fill oneself. And this wasn’t even the flagship restaurant. We will try to get to that one next time.

Paris

Paris ended up being the most difficult part of the journey for multiple reasons. One, obviously, the language barrier was hard to get over. My attempt at learning French for the trip proved to be mostly futile. Two, being near the end of our trip, we were exhausted. And three, since we only had a day and a half, we tried to pack in as much as we could, which resulted in us not having a lot of time to get food, which is one of the main reasons to go there in the first place.

We did some of the obvious things like visiting the Eiffel Tower, the Arc de Triomphe, and Notre Dame. What we did not expect was that Notre Dame was actually kind of bland compared to some of the other churches we’d seen. That became even more clear after we visited Sacre Coeur. That church is the most beautiful one I’ve ever been to. Not the most interesting, not by a long shot, but without a doubt the most beautiful.

The last thing we did on the trip was see the show at Moulin Rouge. This also got into my top three for the trip, it was a blast. A lot of guys like that show simply because of the amount of topless girls, but I was really impressed with the stunt work they did. I wasn’t expecting there to be any at all, but what they did was outstanding and unique. The ventriloquist during the break was also a joy to watch. Seriously, you can’t beat doing an act with an actual dog that opens its mouth on command.

Random Observations

  • Since we had some places to go to in the UK that are hard to get to with public transportation, I had my first experience driving over there. It took about three days to get the hang of it, but once I did, I found it surprisingly relaxing and fun. I enjoyed it more than I normally enjoy driving in the states.
  • Following up on that, I absolutely love the way they’ve done their roads over there. Roundabouts are great no matter what anyone else says. This trip proved to me that freeways with anything less than 3 lanes are awful (seriously, having that extra lane makes a huge difference). I also love how big and descriptive their signs are. Every sign tells you everything you need to know about what’s coming up, and they repeat it several times to make sure you got it. Way more useful than the signs we have here.
  • The only thing that sucked about driving was that our rental car had no acceleration at all. Going on the freeway, if we started going up an incline at all, the car would just start to slow down, no matter how much gas I gave it. I had to downshift a lot, even on freeways.
  • The people in Dublin walk a lot faster than anywhere else we visited. They also tended to be the most brazen when it came to jaywalking, though it was common everywhere.
  • While driving in England was pleasant, I would never want to drive in Dublin or Paris. Good lord those people are crazy.
  • London is unparalleled when it comes to the number of buses you see driving around. Seriously, I’m pretty sure they count for 60% of the total cars on the road there. Taxis account for 35%. The rest are delivery trucks and the occasional personal car.
  • Paris really is as dirty as people say it is. The smells of urine and BO are omnipresent.
  • I suppose it shouldn’t have surprised me that much, but the first thing I noticed when getting to Paris is how much more diverse it is compared to London (and most places I’ve been to in the US for that matter). The rest of the UK I can understand being mostly white, but I figured London would be more diverse. It doesn’t hold a candle to Paris.
  • While I can appreciate that the Paris subways are easier to navigate and their trains move much quicker, I still like the Underground of London better. Mostly because it’s cleaner.
  • I also found it interesting just how many people don’t pay to use the Paris subway. Almost every time we went went in or out, we would see someone jumping the turnstile or going in through the exit door. And no one seemed to care.
  • Trips like this make me really wish that Seattle had the same kind of density that every city has over there. Not just in people, but in shops and restaurants/cafes. It was super convenient to have small markets everywhere. And because there are so many places to eat, we almost never had to wait at any restaurant. There were no lines anywhere, which makes sense. If a place is full, you just go down the street to the next place. That would be awesome to have here.

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Overall it was a great trip, probably my favorite vacation yet. Absolutely cannot wait to go again next year. Next week I will be getting back to writing about topics, starting with my views on privacy and where it is going. See you next time!